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x-posted [Mar. 9th, 2004|10:58 pm]
the young ones
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Ok well i sorta have this problem. I really like this girl, who is bisexual. The only problem is that she has never had an "open" relationship. Her last g/f was of a year and it was her best friend, who had to keep the apperence of a straight girl. She has already told me that she feels wierd being publicly affectionate, and im fine with that, but i dont know if i can do a secret relationship either. I mean i have never actually had a secret relationship but i believe that if you see your girlfriend or boyfriend, in the hall or something, you should be affectionate towards that person. I was raised to express my feelings but i dont want to not have a relationship with her just because she isnt out. Im really confused on what i should do. How do i have a relationship with her and respect her boundaries but without getting rid of my feelings?
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[User Picture]From: nekobara
2004-03-12 05:45 am (UTC)
Maybe you and her could agree to not being affectionate in public but still show signs (touching her hand lightly, brushing against her, etc.) but nothing like hugging or kissing.
Me and my girlfriend are in a place where homosexuals aren't really the most liked people but we still hold hands and hug.
Good luck. ^^
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